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Friday, February 24, 2012

3 months old

Size: Based on our scales at home, you are somewhere around 12 pounds, you have definitely hit your 3 month growth spurt and are growing like crazy!!  You are still in size 1 diapers, which are actually starting to get a little snug and this is bad because we have lots of this size haha.  You are now in mainly all 3 month clothes, and honestly I don't think you will be in these very long because you are growing so fast! 
Developments: Nana and Granddad still call you a "mess". You have gotten to be such a good, predictable baby now and that makes for a happy baby, and in turn, a happy mommy and daddy.  You are definitely sleeping through the night now and will go to bed anytime between 8:00-9:00, and you will sleep until about 6:00 or 6:30 to eat, play a few minutes and go back to bed for another 2 or so hours around 7:30.  You still can be laid sleepy, but awake, in your rocker and will fall asleep on your own staring at your gloworm.  Your schedule has been mastered by you, and your mommy and daddy now! Wake at 6:45 to eat, go back to sleep around 7:30 until about 10:00, eat again, play an hour, back to nap around 11:30, eat again around 12:30-1:00, sleep again around 1:30-2:00, eat again around 3:00-3:30, then down for a 2 hour nap around 3:45 or so.  Mommy usually has to wake you up around 5:45 after I get home from work.  You are smiling like crazy and I know you will be laughing anyday now.  You are getting better about tummy time, but you still don't really like it.  You still get very fussy during Jeopardy(around 7:30 each night), but this is just you telling us it's time for you to get a bath, get your bottle, and GET to bed before we have a breakdown!!!! 
Eating: You are growing like a weed!!! Mommy couldn't quite keep up anymore after your 3 month growth spurt hit, so you now get 6 bottles a day, 2 formula, 4 breastmilk, cereal in the morning and night bottles, and you are now drinking 5 ounces each time, WOAH.  
Likes: Vibrating seat, mobile in crib, activity mat, being swaddled, having your butt pat, your paci, bathtime, mommy and daddy playing with you, sleeping in the car, your buddy Colt, looking in the mirror, laying on your changing table with us talking to you(this is when we get the most smiles), you love Mickey Mouse and Jake and the Neverland pirates on Disney.

Dislikes: Being hungry, sleepy, being put in your carseat, cold baby wipes.
It has been a huge adjustment with mommy going back to work and Daddy staying home with you, and yet another adjustment with your auntie starting to keep you starting this Thursday. I'm so glad to know we will be leaving you with someone who loves you, but I still miss you terribly every day :(. We love you so much you cannot even imagine and can't believe how fast you are growing!!!



Monday, February 20, 2012

Maternity Leave Days

I wanted a way to remember how my little princess and I spent our 1st 3 months together so I decided to blog about my maternity leave time.  First of all, it wasn't always easy I will start out with that, but I am so grateful I got this time to spend with her.  In the beginning, I would watch the clock until 5:00 came because I knew Steven would be pulling up any minute to give me a breather!!! As the weeks went by, this need for 5:00 disappeared, I think a mother and her new baby just have to have time to figure each other out.  Emery eventually started getting on a good schedule and I learned her cries, her wants, etc. 
You started sleeping through the night around 8-9 weeks, of course, there are still great nights, and sometimes still bad nights but overall you are a great sleeper! After you started sleeping through the night, you get up around 6:30-7:00 and we will have your first bottle in bed.  Then, we would play about 30 minutes or so and you would want to go right back to sleep until about 9:30, then time for another bottle and after that you would sit in your vibrating seat and watch Mickey Mouse, I really think you enjoyed this a lot but it could also have been the colors and music haha. 
This picture has made me notice how bad our cords look behind the tv, hmmm, this could be on the honey-do list soon.
After some play time we would go upstairs and change clothes out of our pjs, and it's time for a quick nap in your crib(yes we are still trying to transform you into your crib)! Around lunchtime we would either stay in and play some more, or a lot of times we would venture out to run errands, or we would go eat lunch with Kristen and your boyfriend Colt, or a lot of times your Granddad would come visit during the day.  This gave mommy a chance to clean up, get a shower, etc. 


You would then go down for another long, swaddled nap late in the afternoon and after this it was time for daddy to come home! After 12 wonderful weeks, I think we are finally getting your cute little self on a schedule.  Wake at 6:45, bottle around 7:00, back to sleep by 8:00 until maybe 9:30 or so.  Bottle #2, then Mickey Mouse and quick nap around 10:30.  Bottle #3 anywhere around 12:00-1:00, then play upstairs on your playmat, mobile in crib, tummy time, etc.  Then time for one more quick cat nap around 2:00.  Wake and Bottle #4 around 3:00, then play some more and time for your swaddled afternoon nap around 3:30-4:00.  We are trying to get your last nap a little earlier and not let you sleep longer than 5:30 so you are ready for your bedtime at 8:00-8:30 :).
Your schedule has been hard to come by especially since we had everything going great until our not so good friend RSV hit and you were a sick little baby.  I have never felt so helpless and am so glad you are back to normal.  This hit the week before I went back to work and took a good 10 days to leave.  You had trouble eating, sleeping, etc. it was a rough week and a half to say the least!!! When RSV decided to leave though, your appetite picked up times TEN! You have hit your 3-month growth spurt and you are eating like a little pig! More to come on this subject in your 3-month blog post :). 
The 12 weeks we spent just me and you were the best days of my life, but it is time for mommy to go back to work, it was the hardest day of my life to leave you, but it makes our nights and weekends so much more special.  Your daddy has taken over and is keeping you until March 1st when your Aunt Lindsay will start keeping you, I'm so glad yall are getting to spend these days together.  Mommy feels so much better about knowing you are with people who love you, I'm sure this is the best option for you besides mommy of course :).  We love you so much and I love rushing home in the afternoons to see your sweet face!!!!

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Happy Valentines Day!

Happy Valentines Day from the Asbys! We hope everyone has had a great day, we had a great Valentines day with our little girl, but this is my last day of maternity leave and I have been one sad momma all day :(.  I know it's the right thing for our family though and thank God I have such a wonderful job to get back to with a wonderful group of people!
We have been doing well and I will be posting about our days as Emery and I have spent them over the last 12 weeks hopefully tonight so that I can look back on our time together. 
I just wanted to post our little surprise we gave daddy today, I think he loved it! Who wouldn't???